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HELPFUL
TIPS:
A
PARENT'S CHECKLIST
It
is not always easy to find out if your child is abusing alcohol
and other drugs. Having some of the signs on this list may just
be normal behavior, but having many of them is not considered
normal and you should seek help for your child and your family.
Fatigue, listlessness, apathy, depression, sullen behavior.
Poor self esteem,
withdrawal, estrangement from family and old friends.
Strong overreaction
to even mild criticism; persistent sense of persecution.
Extreme mood swings.
Rages and tantrums; use of obscene, violent, and abusive language.
Poor concentration,
short attention span, impaired memory, and judgment.
Diminished interest,
effort, and success in school, sports, activities, and friendships.
Inappropriate responses
to challenges, mistakes, pain, conflict.
The need to postpone,
to not plan ahead, and failure to mature.
Deterioration of
personal grooming and appearance.
Secretiveness about
money; mysterious appearances and disappearances of money.
New worrisome companions;
mysterious phone calls.
Camouflage ploys
such as eye drops, dark glasses, air fresheners, incense, perfumes,
and air fresheners.
Accidents; brushes
with the law and school authorities.
Increasing family
and parental discord around the behavior of the child.
Frequent sore throats,
sinus problems, cough, infections, "mock mono," extreme pallor,
bad acne, poor appetite combined with gorging on sweets, oddly
focused eyes, and abnormal sleep patterns.
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